'New Marriage'

Jeff Jones (24.165.107.15) -

I was married last month. Ever since I put that ring on her finger we do nothing but disagree and argue. I moved in with her at the same time. This is her third mariage, my first. Let me start by saying that I had no idea what marriage really was except that it was a commitment never to be broken, accept in circumstances that are not present in our marriage. I've since discovered all new facets to our union. I can't seem to get anythig right with her. I'm beginning to think I never will. I want to be the best ya know? It just seems that everything I say and do is backwards to her. Communication has been a problem and I will take the blame for that because I, being single all my life( I am 37) have poor communication skills that I really am trying to improve, but it just isn't coming fast enough and she is constantly flying off the handle at me. I am miserable. Does every marriage start out rough? Does every marriage hit these snags at some point, that maybe we are hitting early? I feel so alone and hurt most of the time because of the things she says that I wonder if I can feel the same about her ever again, or am I suposed to have changed feelings and work to grow on those and suffer through these pains. who really knows?

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